**ooops...forgot to hit publish yesterday**
Awww…look what I found when I was rooting around through
some old stuff!
That was Amanda's first Thanksgiving. Our first Thanksgiving as a family. Wow!…seems like about a million years ago.
A lot has happened in the twenty-three years since that
photo was taken. I mean besides the kids
growing up and the parents growing old(er).
There have been heartaches and hard work, laughter and
tears, life-altering events, beginnings and endings and we picked up a couple
of sons-in-law along the way. As a family, we have had our ups and downs, our
little arguments and real big fights. But, one thing has been constant…we have
always been together as a family unit for Thanksgiving. Always.
That’s not something to take lightly. Lots of folks are missing someone today. Lots of folks don’t have anyone to miss…at
all. Lots of folks are lonely and hurting on this
most festive day.
In the end, I don’t think the food, no matter how delicious,
will be the thing that we all remember.
We probably won’t even remember whether we all took a long walk to burn
off the calories, or if we crashed in front of the television. We might remember funny things that someone said, but then again, we might not. It won’t matter who wore what, or if anybody
helped do the dishes. We will just remember that we were all here…together.
...and it's still hard to get everyone to pose! |
…and that is a priceless memory. (for which I am ever thankful)
Lovely post Barbara - you are so right.
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