It’s October---
although you would never know it by the temperature! It has
been well into the eighties all week. That’s certainly not normal.
By October, we’re generally gearing up (or down) for the
first killing frost of the season and preparing for much cooler weather. That
certainly is not the scenario this year.
Everything seems a little off this year. And, I do mean EVERYthing.
But, I’m tired of talking/writing about how strange and uncertain
things are. About how it seems like we’re in a holding pattern, or how I am
just not “feelin’ the love” for a number of things anymore. That only sounds
whiny and sad while doing nothing to solve the situation.
So…
If there is any sort of upside to the weird weather that
precludes outdoor work, the ongoing injury-recovery that hampers endurance and
the socio-political news that has me wanting to hide under the covers, it is
this: I’ve done a whole lot of reading lately and found some super-inspiring
things in some rather unlikely places.
Since I’m pretty sure someone out there somewhere finds themselves
in a similar situation, read on. Maybe you’ll find inspiration, too.
We didn’t do any amazing things here on the hill this week. We’re
in that annoying, uncomfortable stuck-in-the-middle and try to find the strength to endure place that I wrote
about last week. But, the Boss cleaned out hoophouse #1 in anticipation of next
season. The green garlic arrived and will be planted the first of the week. He
began work to dismantle one of the greenhouses that is no longer in use. Progress, be it ever so slight, is being made.
For my part, I found the chance to get to some
cleaning/organizing that has been on the back-burner far too long. Two freezers
got cleaned out. Not only was it nice to finally get that job off the list, the
hens truly enjoyed a smorgasbord of all sorts of slightly freezer-burned “goodies”.
Not to mention Karma enjoyed eating (and laying in) all the chunks of ice.
Ice on a hot day makes for a happy dog! |
The big news from the garden was that there was actually
BROCCOLI to harvest. I had about given up on this. There isn’t as much as there
should have been, could have been…but, at least there is something. There was
far more (of everything) than expected for Market.
And, that’s a good thing.
BROCCOLI finally! |
Good thing… that’s a nice segue.
In my escapist reading, I’ve plowed through a pile of books
of all sorts of genres. Memoirs, classics, how-to, self-help, and yes, chick-lit.
And, amazingly, that is where I have found perhaps the deepest bits of inspiration.
Happiness for Beginners by Katherine Center was suggested
to me by the author after I told her how much I liked, no loved, one of her
other books. When an author actually takes the time to respond to a fan, the
fan definitely takes the advice.
I won’t give away the storyline, but the protagonist goes on
one of those wilderness survival courses to “find herself”. Along the way, she
finds a whole lot more. While on this trip, someone suggests that she find 3 Good Things each day. This is drawn
from the book Happy at Last: The Thinking Person’s Guide to finding Joy
by Richard O’Connor. Ms. Center (the author) utilizes this framework for her
own newsletter and you can sense this in her other writings.
That can be a revolutionary way of looking at things,
changing our thinking and our outlook for the future. Personally, I tend to get
caught up in the negative stuff and the problems that look insurmountable. Mindfulness
and gratitude would go a long way to changing a lot of things in this world.
Now, I will grant you that trying to see good things can be
difficult. But, it can be done. For example, I realized when I found myself
saying “hey, it is a GOOD THING that I found the cat puke on the carpet” that
my perspective might be changing. While I wasn’t really happy to find the mess,
I was glad I found it before the Boss did. Especially since it was entirely
possible he could have stepped on it…in the dark. Ugh! I might still be hearing
about that one. So, good thing.
Definitely.
And, yes, while I am fairly certain that's not exactly what she meant, sometimes I have had to dig that deep for
something good.
Here, in no particular order are a few more good things (far more than three!) :
LOTS of butterflies |
cute calf (not ours, but still cute!) |
better Market than last week |
Karma is too big to get through the fence (definite good thing!) |
weirdly beautiful morning |
pretty maple leaf |
sunshine every day for a week! |
the morning glories are still hanging in there |
early morning is SO beautiful |
but, then, so is late afternoon |
Karma helps with early morning chores |
and she's just CUTE! |
Gus and Karma always entertaining |
I love spiderwebs they remind me of "Charlotte's Web" read this |
pretty gum leaves in the sunshine |
mushrooms at the mailbox |
sunlit leaf |
sunlit sheep |
If you want a challenge for the upcoming week, try to find THREE
GOOD THINGS and see what happens.
You might just find that it changes everything.
For now, the Boss and I are off for a little “Sunday field-trip”
(see, good thing) that I will tell you about next time.
I hope you have a Happy Sunday!
Thanks for reading! Come back and “visit” us again real
soon.
That last rosebud is a delight Barbara.
ReplyDeleteLovely pictures and enjoyed your thoughts! Happy Monday.
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