Why You Gotta Be SO Mean?

You, with your words like knives and swords and weapons…

All you’re ever gonna be is mean

You, with your switching sides and your wildfire lies and your humiliation…

And all you're ever gonna be is mean

All you are is mean
And mean, and mean, and mean, and mean

Why you gotta be so mean?

 -Taylor Swift --“ Mean”

Sorry about channeling Taylor Swift…I’m not usually a fan, but this song is stuck in my head and it seems appropriate.

Is it just me, or does it seem like an awful lot of folks are just plain MEAN?  SO MEAN?

It’s no longer acceptable to have an opposing view, to have some sort of civilized debate and discussion or even to agree to disagree.

In today’s world, heated words immediately follow any mention of opposition.  Things escalate and suddenly death threats are flying.  Or at least wishes for hurt to the “other side”.   

    

The anti’s hate all those in Agriculture and wish them ill.  http://www.geneticliteracyproject.org/2014/07/28/fbi-turns-up-heat-on-mike-adams-as-health-ranger-fiasco-widens-plus-adams-archive/

The Ag crowd jumps at shadows and gets mean and ugly. http://farmprogress.com/blogs-wading-muck-was-worth-8828  

Locally, the power company is under attack for proposing a survey for a possible pipeline. http://www.newsleader.com/story/opinion/editorials/2014/08/14/dominion-proposal-seems-like-done-deal/14064537/    

I could go on and on.

The world is a mean, mean place these days.  And, I’m not even talking about all the wars and skirmishes around the world.

Even when someone dies…someone else needs to be mean about it.  No matter what your stance on suicide, Robin Williams’ family had to be hurting and it couldn’t have helped at all to see and hear headlines that were just plain mean (and utterly vile in some cases). ...and it certainly didn't help anyone else.

I’ll skip the rest of the news headlines that exemplify the MEAN in people. I’m sure you’ve seen them, too.

I’m not saying you shouldn’t have an opinion.  I would never say anyone shouldn’t openly speak their mind. And, I am not in the least opposed to occasional angry outbursts. I would be hypocritical to ever even  suggest anything like that…I’m an opinionated, Southern woman with red hair, an Irish temper…and well-developed vocabulary…believe me, I will tell you what I think! (Yes, I do see my entire family nodding their collective heads in total…and vehement…agreement)

But, could we all just take a step back, draw a deep breath and think before we jump into a conversation with harsh words and cutting commentary?  Oh…yeah…could everybody please make sure they have all the facts before jumping to conclusions?  Listening, actually listening…not just hearing words…seems to be a lost art.

Disagreement should be expected.  Debate and discussion should be encouraged.  (Sometimes, we haven’t seen the big picture and cannot fathom the far reaching effects) But, discourse should be civilized and it is not necessary to “convert” the opposition every single time.  Disagreement does NOT make the opposing point or position invalid.  Perhaps we should open our minds and our hearts just a little when listening to others. 

The loss of Robin Williams brought to light a number of great quotes from his various movie roles.  This being one of them.

So…

  I’d like to use my words/ideas to change it for the better.

                                   ...where ya (DON'T) "gotta be so mean".

Want to hear the song? Click here.

Faces of the Fair

Big top at the Rockingham County Fair

Here are a few of the faces I saw at this year's fair...

goldfish on the midway

Her name is Attitude

She looks to HAVE an attitude

a CUTE face

sleepy faces

Fun!  or Terror?  You decide

Hi! I'm a photogenic goat.

Boer goat

Hey! It's me again...did ya get my good side?

Hereford heifer

Angus calf
I don't want no bath!

Mama and newborn Jersey calf

Suffolk lambs waiting for the show

Thoughtful, focused faces

stylish Holstein girls

Pretty Jersey girl

I think he just woke up

and this one is plum wore out!

the face(s) of determination

three contented cows enjoy a snack

 

the face of hard work

Apparently no one enjoys a bath
Disgust is the only description of the look on her face!

Being at the fair is exhausting

Bet you never saw a face like this!

Now, this looks like a HAPPY hog!

Hope you enjoyed this little trip around the fair!

Sunday Walkabout 8-17

It's beginning to look and feel like FALL!

Wow!  That was quick!

Another week goes into the history column.

When I left off last Sunday…

 Oh, wait…I realize I haven’t written since…sorry, the summer doldrums have hit big time…I’ll be back soon…in the meantime, read these…"Summer Doldrums" 

"Father, Forgive Me" to understand what happens around here in the summertime. This year we are not bothered by heat...but, still...the summer gets long sometimes.

Back to what I was saying…

Last Sunday, we were still “brake-less” in the farm truck.  After a little brainstorming with the kids around the supper table Saturday evening, we figured we’d have to have it towed and repaired.   There’s this guy with a tow truck…and he could take it to this other guy…and then, maybe, just maybe we’d be back on the road by this week’s market…

The Boss just didn’t seem real keen on that whole idea, so he checked a little more, watched some Youtube and decided to take on the job himself.  A little fieldtrip for parts…a few minutes of heart-stopping action as he put it in the shop (Wait! The door! STOP!  The freezer!)…a little crawling on the floor  

…and my expert brake-pumping help

Apparently I am very good at braking
it has been suggested that I get my own pedal on the passenger side.

and he had it back on the road in short order.

Yay, Boss!

 And, the parts bill?    $20. Really. Definitely, a YAY!

Then, we processed broilers…again.

hauling broilers for processing 

  

Given Gus' propensity for "helping" he spends processing day in the barn
Isn't this a pathetic face?
yes, the door is tied shut...he will open it otherwise

After processing, we moved the mid-sized birds out back and on Friday another batch arrived at the Post Office.

broilers settling in new pen

Gus helped by "cleaning" the chick waterer

newly arrived chick

It always amazes me that those little fluff-balls not much bigger than a marshmallow will grow large enough to feed a hungry family in just eight weeks!

Fine eating!
-TLeightonWomack photo

And it rained…again. We got over a half an inch this time and it really seemed to make a big difference in the growth in the gardens and the fields. The fall crops are looking great! Unfortunately, the weeds are growing well, too.

The rain changed the Boss’ plan to “shoot” the Rockingham County Fair. So he worked on the tractor instead.

after the truck repair...tractor tire repair
it's always something!

This is the third year we’ve done this at the request of the General Manager.  Last year, one of the Boss’ photos garnered an award from the International Association of Fairs and Expositions. Here’s that story. Thanks for the opportunity, Jeff!

The Rockingham County Fair is Virginia’s largest Agricultural fair and in 2012 was America’s top agricultural fair (IAFE Div. 1)   https://www.facebook.com/RockCoFair  It’s impressive to say the least.

Here are a few random fair shots.  I hope to have a couple of posts in the next week or so about the fair.

This year the Fair invested in a new poultry barn AND a whole new building to house a poultry exhibit. 

Poultry production has had an enormous influence on Valley life in the past 75 years and the exhibit is outstanding. There is MUCH more to the fair than Ferris wheels, blue ribbons and cotton candy! You could learn a lot at the fair. Oh…wait, do you sense a blog post coming?

After a day at the Fair, it was back to the business at hand.  Planting, picking, packing, weeding, seeding, feeding…

This may be the cure for my summer doldrums
seeds for fall and winter!

Despite the ruined corn
the butterfly is pretty!

On one of my trips out to feed the lambs, I discovered that we had suffered some sort of invasion overnight.  Marauding critters (groundhogs or coons, I reckon) had gotten into the poor, struggling corn and had themselves a ball.  Now, this has happened in the past (read this),  but we had seen no evidence of any predators in quite some time (and we trapped countless critters last year) and we got complacent…and the corn wasn’t looking all that great anyway.  I honestly thought that the crop was a total loss and that thought just added to whole “summer doldrums” that I’d been struggling with all week.  However, on closer investigation, there will actually be some corn to harvest both for our own use and for Winter Sales.  Hooray!

 (guess what we’re doing tomorrow after the feed/town run)

there are a lot of squashes hiding under the leaves

In other crop news, the bumper crop of butternut squash is becoming evident as the vines begin to die back.  In another couple weeks, we will harvest the squash, allowing them to cure prior to sale at the Market. We’re going to need a BIG storage spot this year!

just a few grapes

 …and despite the Polar Vortex and the cold snap during the Spring, there are even a few grapes along the lane where the wandering deer herd of Mbrook can’t reach them. We see the herd on a regular basis, and while I think the dogs have kept them from visiting here on the hill, they were spotted at the Post Office the other day. And, no…I do not know why deer would go to the Post Office, particularly the Mbrook Post Office! (no offense to Mbrook of course)

the sauce tomatoes are especially prolific
despite the blighted leaves

The rain got the tomato crop ripening and there are tomatoes everywhere.  We made sauce this week, took bunches to Market and still have more to process.  It looks like we will be freezing the next batch for Winter Sales. Yes, tomatoes will freeze.  Now, you couldn’t use them in a salad or on a sandwich, but they are perfect for chili, soups and stews. And, while you could just buy them at the store, we like putting up our own produce and our customers appreciate our efforts. So, that’s job #1 this week…because, like it or not, Winter is going to make a return visit.

The week was capped off with another amazing Market.

The crowds have been unbelievable this year and the Market (as a whole) is on course to set an all-time sales record. Personally, despite a very slow start, our sales have been astounding.  We get constant requests to grow more, more, more.  It is both encouraging and humbling to hear folks rave about the food we produce here on the hill.  

THANK YOU to all our faithful customers!

It looks like a dark, possibly rainy start to a Sunday…but, nobody is going to complain about rain…no way!

Sunday sunrise from the front porch  8-17

Hope you’re having a

Happy Sunday!

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